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Bare Curiosity talks plainly about bodies and sex. Please confirm you're 18 or over.

For 18 and over. I'm an educator, not a medical professional.

Ask the thing you'd never say out loud.

There's no such thing as a silly question here, only questions somebody decided you weren't allowed to ask. I answer a selection every Thursday.

Nothing saves until you send

How anonymous is anonymous

  • No name, email or account. The form collects nothing but the words you type.
  • No IP address stored, and no analytics running on this page.
  • If I publish an answer, I rewrite the question so nothing can trace back to you.
  • You can ask me to delete a question by quoting its first three words in a new one.

If you're in danger or need urgent care, the ask box is the wrong tool. Here are South African helplines that answer straight away.